The Best Restaurant & Brewery Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

The Best Restaurant & Brewery Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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9 Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

Restaurants, breweries
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Drift82 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Drift 82 is a waterfront wedding venue located on the Patchogue River, offering sweeping views of the Great South Bay. With flexible indoor and outdoor spaces, coastal charm, and a relaxed yet refined atmosphere, Drift 82 provides a stunning setting for ceremonies and receptions designed to feel personal, effortless, and unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No free parking
Drift 82 was the perfect setting for our wedding. The water views were stunning, the space was beautiful and well maintained, and communication throughout planning was easy and stress free. The staff was attentive and welcoming, making the entire day feel seamless. Our guests loved the atmosphere, and we couldn’t have asked for more!
Kathleen, 10 days ago
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Chops Steakhouse 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Chops Steakhouse in Patchogue Village is a premier steakhouse and event-friendly venue located in the heart of downtown Patchogue. With a prohibition-inspired atmosphere, upscale menu featuring dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, creative cocktails, and a world-class bourbon selection, Chops offers an elegant backdrop for celebrating special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
We celebrated my dad’s 60th birthday at Chops Steakhouse and it couldn’t have been better!! The private space felt welcoming and elevated, the speakeasy-style atmosphere set the tone for the night, and everything flowed seamlessly. It was a fantastic setting for bringing family and friends together for such a meaningful milestone.
Jennifer, 2 days ago
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VIP Room Catered Events 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

VIP Room in Patchogue is an elegant private event venue on Main Street that’s perfect for weddings, parties, and special occasions, offering a beautiful space with a full bar and attentive staff to make every celebration memorable. We combine modern style with personalized service and delicious catering options, ensuring your event feels both special and seamless from start to finish!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
Christine and her staff at the VIP Room are absolutely amazing. From the moment I viewed the space, through booking, the night before, setup, and all the way to the very last second of my event, everything was handled flawlessly. I didn’t have to worry about a single thing anything I thought of was already taken care of. They truly went above and beyond. Christine makes you feel like family and I truly could not thank her enough for making my wedding day so special… Cannot wait to plan my next event here!!
Tashilee S., 25 days ago
James Betz 

5.0

Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).
Alexandra & C., 5 years ago
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Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 

5.0

Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
A service, staff and catering. We had an awesome time celebrating our reception and Rockefellers went out of their way to make it incredibly personal and special.
Erin B., 11 days ago
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Bayberry 
Islip, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000
  • Offer

Bayberry is a beautiful wedding and events venue in the heart of Islip, NY. It offers a warm and stylish setting for a reception, complete with thoughtful decor and amazing food that set the tone for a joyful evening. The space can accommodate up to 100 guests and includes a 40 seat bar and an outdoor patio where guests can mingle and enjoy the fresh air. It is perfect for intimate celebrations or lively gatherings with family and friends. The Bayberry team will work closely with you to bring your wedding vision to life. Their chefs craft menus inspired by bistro classics using quality ingredients and refined techniques. Guests can enjoy handcrafted cocktails, a curated wine selection, or their favorite beer. With attentive staff handling each detail, you can relax and enjoy a night to remember.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • No on-site bridal suite
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Goldy's Gems 
Bay Shore, NY
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Offer

Goldy’s is a fun, stylish venue with cozy lounges, warm lighting and a lively atmosphere perfect for bridal showers, birthdays and upbeat private events. Celebrate in a charming space filled with energy and feel good moments.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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The Better Man Distilling Company 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

The Better Man Distilling Co is a one-of-a-kind venue packed with personality and charm. Our mid century modern tasting room and outdoor patio and grass areas provide numerous different backdrops for guests to mingle and make memories. The distillery is worlds away from the typical no-personality event venue. Our mid century modern decor, outdoor patio and pergola, and grass area make this the perfect place for any kind of event. Plus, lots of amazing photo spots!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
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Insignia 
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At Insignia, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical wedding halls. Combining the look and feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with a chic, upscale Manhattan restaurant, it sets the stage for a truly memorable experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • Does not allow pets

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About wedding venues in Oakdale, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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